The Impurity of a Birthing Mother
STUDENT
SUMMARIES OF SICHOT OF THE ROSHEI YESHIVA
PARASHAT
TAZRIA
SICHA OF
HARAV
The Impurity
of a Birthing Mother
Translated
by
Speak
to Bnei Yisrael saying: If a woman conceives seed and bears a male child, she
shall be ritually impure for seven days; as in the days of her menstrual
weakness shall she be impure. And
on the eighth day, the flesh of his foreskin shall be circumcised.
(Vayikra 12:2-3)
It
is generally held that all of the types of ritual impurity (tuma)
enumerated in the Torah are related one way or another to death: animals embody
and convey ritual impurity only when they are dead; a person enters a state of
impurity upon coming into contact with a dead body or when stricken with
tzaraat, which is considered a partial death, etc. The ritual impurity of a menstrual woman
expresses the same concept: in general, menstrual blood is evidence of potential
life that was not realized; it represents a possibility for new life which did
not come about. Indeed, a woman who
is pregnant is not nidda: during the pregnancy her vitality and energy
are directed towards nurturing new life, and her powers of regeneration have not
been wasted, as it were. Nidda
(menstrual impurity), then, is likewise the expression of an encounter with
potential life that was not realized.
It is the absence of life a shadow of death.
On
the basis of this explanation, it is puzzling that a birthing mother is likewise
ritually impure. If all impurity is
related to death, then how is this state related to a woman who is in the
process of creating new life? We may question further why the Torah compares the
impurity of the birthing mother to the impurity of nidda as in the
days of her menstrual weakness shall she be impure. And a final question: why is circumcision
mentioned in the context of these types of impurity? The commandment concerning circumcision
is given to Avraham already in Sefer Bereishit; why is it mentioned again
along with the impurity of nidda and of the birthing
mother?
An
interesting midrash on our parasha may hold the key to solving
these difficulties:
A
different explanation: If a woman conceives seed This is as it is written,
I was brought about through sin (Tehillim 51:7). Rabbi Acha said [in explanation of this
verse from Tehillim]: Even the most righteous of people cannot be without
some aspect of sin. [In this
verse,] David said to the Holy One, blessed be He: Master of the world did my
father, Yishai, then mean for me to be born? His only concern [at my conception]
was for his own pleasure! We know
that this is the case, for after they fulfill their needs, he turns his head
this way while she turns her head the other way
That is as it is written, If a
woman conceives seed and bears a son. (Vayikra Rabba,
14)
In
parashat Bereishit, prior to Adams sin, we read: And they were both
bare Adam and his wife and they were not ashamed. It seems that prior to the sin, there
was no need for the sexual drive.
God commanded man, Be fruitful and multiply, and this command was
sufficient to cause Adam to fulfill Gods will. There was no need for the shame that
is associated with the process surrounding childbirth. In the wake of the sin, after eating of
the tree of knowledge of good and evil, man reached a state where Gods command
was no longer sufficient motivation to cause him to do what was necessary in
order to be fruitful. Therefore, in
order to ensure that the world would continue to develop and grow, God imbued
man with a sexual urge. Ever since
then, man has relied on this urge to create new life. Without it, the Divine command may not
have been sufficient.
We
have to remember that this state of affairs is in fact a disgrace. The fact that man will not suffice with
Gods command, but requires in addition a drive and lust in order to fulfill the
command to be fruitful and multiply, is reason for shame as expressed by the
midrash which puts this thought into the mouth of David. Every birth entails an element of sin,
because the process involves some measure of physical lust rather than a pure
desire to fulfill Gods command to be fruitful. Hence, every birth involves
impurity. The element of sin that
is inseparably bound up with the creation of new life, is what causes a woman to
become ritually impure during the birth process.
There
is a famous midrash (Tanchuma, Tazria, 7) that records an
exchange between Rabbi Akiva and the wicked Turnus Rufus:
The
wicked Turnus Rufus asked Rabbi Akiva: Whose actions are
better, those of God or those of man?
He
answered him, Mans actions are better.
The
wicked Turnus Rufus asked him, Can you then create anything like the heavens and
the earth?
Rabbi
Akiva answered, Dont talk about things that are above human capacity, over
which we have no control. Let us
rather discuss things that concern human beings.
He
said to him, Why do you [Jews] practice circumcision?
He
answered him, I knew that that was what you were going to say, and that is why I
said in the beginning that mans actions are better than those of God. Bring me sheaves of wheat and cakes
These are the work of God, while these are the work of man are these [latter]
not better?
This
midrash illustrates the concept that God entrusts us with the
responsibility of perfecting the world.
There are some schools of thought even today that glorify
nature. They believe that what is
natural is perfect. The Jewish
view, however, is that nature needs perfecting. There are some educational approaches
that are based on the idea of leaving the childs nature intact. It is not difficult to look around and
see the results. Raw nature is not
always good; it often needs some work.
Therefore it is specifically in the context of the Torahs discussion of
the birthing mother and her ritual impurity, which comes about as a result of
the natural drives and urges that exist in man, that the Torah reminds us of the
way to correct this imperfection through circumcision. Through circumcision we correct the
natural drives that exist within us and perfect the inherent deficiency that has
existed in the world since the sin of Adam. The Torah is thereby teaching us that
the fact that the sexual urge is natural does not mean that it is inherently a
positive force. It entails impurity
and must be corrected through circumcision.
I
wish to add a final point. We have
seen that the impurity of nidda arises as the result of potential life
that is not realized. We must keep
this lesson in mind: a person who fails to realize his inborn potential, is
sinning and bringing impurity upon himself. A person must not only distance himself
from sin, but also use all the powers that exist within him to perfect his
personality and his character. A
person who fails to strive and work to perfect himself is committing a
sin.
This
would seem to apply in particular to those of us who dwell in the beit
midrash and occupy ourselves with Torah. We are responsible for maximizing our
potential. I am already old, but
you are still young. You must work
to improve yourselves and maximize your strengths, good traits, and
abilities. This is not a
supererogatory task, something that is praiseworthy but not mandatory; rather,
it is a task that is incumbent upon each and every one of us. Anyone who neglects it is impure, as
in the days of menstrual weakness.
(This
sicha was delivered on Shabbat parashat Tazria 5767
[2007].)